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title: "人生防坑指南" | ||
date: 2024-03-22 | ||
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tags: ["其他"] | ||
slug: "ideology-002" | ||
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为什么要做好人生的防坑防诈骗,有些时候做好防坑防诈骗的意义大于你花十几年如一日的学习,花几十年去赚钱。由此可见是很重要的。 | ||
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大家去观察普通人,他们到了30岁,35岁,40岁依然碌碌无为,依然负债,每天过得很辛苦,就是因为他没做好人生的防坑防诈骗。 | ||
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简单算一笔账,假设你月薪4000-5000,那么你每年可能攒个1-2w,这样过了5年后你就能攒到10w左右。那为什么到了40多岁的时候,很多男人不光身无分文,还负债。 | ||
一个普通的男人,勤勤恳恳,每天工作,看起来也不笨,为人也没有什么问题,但是为什么他就是过的如此的艰苦?那么他概率是在人生的重大选择和抉择上出现了问题。 | ||
一个正常的男人,从二十几岁开始工作,那么他到了中年反而比之前过的更差,那么一定有使他长期贫困的原因,这个原因一定不是他笨,而是他身上有血管子在身上抽血。 | ||
用逆向思维推断一下,那么他就是在人生重大抉择的选择上,他选错了。在生活中,只要遭受了一次重大打击,那么你可能5年10年都站不起来,甚至20年一辈子都站不起来。 | ||
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婚姻、房子,成为大部分普通人身上的血管子,每时每刻都在抽血。 | ||
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现在农村,城市,大城市,绝大多数的婚姻都是功利性的婚姻,里面感情的分量极少。不是一种自然,长期爱情的结果,而是一种金钱交易行为,或者说它是一种披着道德的金钱交易行为。 | ||
在这种婚姻中,如果两人的利益发生冲突,那么最愿意事先抛弃道德,最能得到巨大利益的量化,而选择自我感化,自我蒙蔽,更加包容的人,更容易背刺,在金钱上有重大利益损失。 | ||
很多25岁,30岁的男性,谈婚论嫁的时候,如果那个女生不是足够爱他,或者他们两人没有很好的感情基础,只是通过相亲去结合;那个女性完全是看在彩礼,房子,车子的份上暂时的婚姻。这种女性从结婚了开始就想着如何背刺男性。 | ||
所以大量婚姻不幸的男性,遇到这种情况,在婚姻中投入30w,40w,家底厚一点,爹妈一辈子白干,很多人一辈子过不去这个坎,到了35、40岁更加完蛋。 | ||
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通过思想教化可以奴役人,就是让你觉得包包、衣服可以体现身份,车子、房子可以体现身份和社会地位。如果我们静下心来去思考这件事,就会发现车子、房子不会体现出身份和社会地位,但是会满足悬在云上的那种虚荣感。 | ||
真正体现的是权力、金钱和事业。很多男性的婚姻是被父母逼迫出来的,父母只是不想被别人指指点点。很多人到了35岁、40岁的时候就是因为在这两件事情上没处理好。 | ||
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在你的人生中能够使你遭受到诈骗的,一定是你的亲人和朋友,他们并不是发自内心的,不是为了搞你的钱而诈骗你,而是他的一种无意识的行为。有些家长看到别人结婚买房子,他也要去买,你在这上面一旦套进去,这就是一种金钱的投资,意味着你10年20年都不一定把这个坑填满。 | ||
短暂的看是10年20年的事情,但是使用这一羊毛的人,心胸极度歹毒。 | ||
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除了要做好这两件事情的防坑防诈骗,还有一件事就是要摆好自己跟父母之间的关系,结了婚的同志,要处理也要处理好跟老婆之间的关系。大家要搞清楚在家庭关系中,钱是钱,利益是利益,感情是感情,不存在你不给我花钱就是不爱我的情况。 | ||
穷人的烙印,在经历的事情多了以后,看的书多了以后,思想突破了以后,在一个有“诅咒”的地方,所有的东西都是针对穷人设计的。例如,网红giao哥,把自己的钱都给了老婆,他老婆十天半月不会一趟家,孩子也不是他的,离婚了钱也没转给他,喜欢把自己标榜到好男人的形象。 虽然逆天改命挣到了钱,依然没有逃过思想的诅咒。 | ||
世界的规则就是,资源和钱一定掌握在强者手中,能到社会上捞钱的人,在家庭当中的强者才有掌控权,弱者没有资格掌控权,我可以给你生活费,但是你没有家里的财务掌控权。 | ||
很多男人在感情上如果过不了这一关,必死。无论是家庭,还是婚姻。如果你在家庭中,被拎着脑袋走,思考不清楚主次的关系,那么你家庭一定会乱糟糟的,弱者脑子是不清晰的,脑子不清晰的人是没有爱的。她只是被情绪所影响,那么你把钱放在他那里你必死无疑。 | ||
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如果你手上有一些积蓄时,别瞎搞,多读书控制情绪,保持身体健康,活得久钱就可以越来越多。根据经济周期,每隔三五年就有一波机会,所以等就好了,不要硬上,如果接触到一个不懂的行业赔死你。 | ||
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