resource control: fix unsafe usage of time.After and timer.Reset

[lhy1024]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: Close #8876

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Tests

• Unit test

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Timeline:

• 2024-12-17 10:20:09.668941777 +0000 UTC m=+952199.757744315: ☑️ agreed by rleungx.
• 2024-12-20 03:19:51.232248775 +0000 UTC m=+1186181.321051313: ☑️ agreed by bufferflies.