node: Do not use shared `abseil-cpp` #21166

Job	Run time
Feeds Package Test Build / Test aarch64_generic	3h 7m 7s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test arm_cortex-a15_neon-vfpv4	3h 6m 35s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test arm_cortex-a9_vfpv3-d16	3h 1m 20s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test i386_pentium-mmx	2h 58m 43s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test mips_24kc	9m 13s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test mipsel_24kc	3m 24s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test powerpc_464fp	6m 27s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test powerpc_8548	5m 35s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test riscv64_riscv64	3m 28s
Feeds Package Test Build / Test x86_64	2h 59m 40s
	15h 41m 32s

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