[improve] Check the status of fe and be before connect

[smallhibiscus]

Proposed changes

Check the status of fe and be before connect.

Problem Summary:

Describe the overview of changes.

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior: (Yes/No/I Don't know)
2. Has unit tests been added: (Yes/No/No Need)
3. Has document been added or modified: (Yes/No/No Need)
4. Does it need to update dependencies: (Yes/No)
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back: (Yes/No)

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[JNSimba]

LGTM