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+---
+title: "曾仕强-爱情与婚姻-恋爱的结果是婚姻才圆满"
+date: 2024-05-07
+draft: false
+tags: ["爱情与婚姻","笔记"]
+slug: "love-and-marriage-12"
+---
+
+在当代社会，有一种观点认为结婚是对纯爱情的不信任，认为婚姻仅仅是一种形式，与爱情无关。他们主张，结婚就像是束缚自由的绳索，而真正的爱情应该是无拘无束的。
+听起来好像是这么回事，挺有道理，但这是部分的道理而不是全部的道理，只把这部分的道理拿出来讲当然有道理了。
+现实情况来看这种人往往都会喜新厌旧，跟你发生性关系以后拍拍屁胡走人了。为什么我们总看些古圣先贤的书，因为所有没有经过时间验证的理论都是不值得相信的。
+
+总是有人说恋爱是纯一的，代表人生中最高的享受，不要把其他世俗的东西带到恋爱上面去，有什么企图都是不对的，恋爱不必拥有，只要相爱何必计较时间，讲的好像都有道理。
+如果我们仅仅沉溺于恋爱的浪漫之中，而不考虑未来的婚姻生活，那么这段感情很可能会变得肤浅和短暂。
+
+人生之路漫长，过程的重要性不言而喻。婚姻并非恋爱的终点，而是其升华和延伸。
+它象征着两人愿意携手共度一生，共同面对生活的挑战与困难。在这漫长的人生旅程中，恋爱与婚姻应紧密相连，相互扶持和理解。
+
+当人们渴望结婚时，若发现自己的爱都已经用光了，无法与深爱之人携手，便可能感到失落。如果再遇到一个同样处境的人，两人可能只能勉强凑合，彼此心存距离，貌合神离。
+所以只有那些有可能成为我们终身伴侣的人，才值得我们付出时间和精力去追求。如果我们只是为了享受恋爱的快感而随意选择对象，那么最终很可能会落得一场空。
+我们一开始要建立一个观念，我们要为了结婚才谈恋爱，然后恋爱过程中循序渐进一步一步相互了解，不是说找对象就是为了享受或者图个乐，如果一开始就这样那是动机不纯。
+
+为了避免婚姻中的苦恼和困惑，我们需要在恋爱中保持一定的理智和清醒。造成苦恼的原因只有一个，就是没有用理智来指导感情，当情绪没有收到理性控制的时候你就会变得苦恼。
+并不是说我们要压抑自己的情感，而是要学会用理性来引导和控制情感。人生中的苦恼形形色色，人有七情六欲，但是当感情发出来的时候，要用你的理性去控制它、节制它，就不会有苦恼了。
+当我们感情要发作的时候，要理性的加以适当的掌握，掌握到合理的地步即可。
+
+除此之外在恋爱中我还有三点建议：
+1. 恋爱中保持相当的理智，不要痴迷。要先选择好对象在恋爱，不要在恋爱中选择，用理性指导感性；
+2. 结婚之前守贞。只要你不跟任何人发生性关系，你就跟这些人一点关系、一点责任都没有，一旦发生性关系就被套牢了；
+3. 在恋爱中讨论婚事。当恋情发展到一定程度，恋爱中讨论结婚的事情是很正常的，好多人都不敢谈，整天看电影、谈理想，但是生活是很实际的东西早晚都需要面对；
+
+每个人都有权利选择自己的生活方式和价值观，无论是选择单身还是步入婚姻殿堂，都尊重个人的选择和意愿，但是建议恋爱要以结婚为目标。
+有达成的可能才会把她列入对象，如果没有可能，那就是浪费时间。
+要慎重选择恋爱的对象，不然就保持友谊。有时候朋友是一辈子的事情，夫妻之间反而不能一辈子，这就表示夫妻还不如朋友。
+夫妻之间说翻脸就翻脸，就是听了那些乱七八糟的言论，那些人可以不负责任，但是我们不能对自己不负责任。
+
+爱情和婚姻是人生中很重要的一部分，而且是很神圣的一部分，因为它会决定你之后的日子是充满了幸福快乐还是充满了烦恼忧愁，所以一定要慎始，不要自己跟自己过不去。
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+                        <span id="post_page_title_date" class="date">2024.05.07</span>
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+                    <div class="post_content markdown"><p>在当代社会，有一种观点认为结婚是对纯爱情的不信任，认为婚姻仅仅是一种形式，与爱情无关。他们主张，结婚就像是束缚自由的绳索，而真正的爱情应该是无拘无束的。
+听起来好像是这么回事，挺有道理，但这是部分的道理而不是全部的道理，只把这部分的道理拿出来讲当然有道理了。
+现实情况来看这种人往往都会喜新厌旧，跟你发生性关系以后拍拍屁胡走人了。为什么我们总看些古圣先贤的书，因为所有没有经过时间验证的理论都是不值得相信的。</p>
+<p>总是有人说恋爱是纯一的，代表人生中最高的享受，不要把其他世俗的东西带到恋爱上面去，有什么企图都是不对的，恋爱不必拥有，只要相爱何必计较时间，讲的好像都有道理。
+如果我们仅仅沉溺于恋爱的浪漫之中，而不考虑未来的婚姻生活，那么这段感情很可能会变得肤浅和短暂。</p>
+<p>人生之路漫长，过程的重要性不言而喻。婚姻并非恋爱的终点，而是其升华和延伸。
+它象征着两人愿意携手共度一生，共同面对生活的挑战与困难。在这漫长的人生旅程中，恋爱与婚姻应紧密相连，相互扶持和理解。</p>
+<p>当人们渴望结婚时，若发现自己的爱都已经用光了，无法与深爱之人携手，便可能感到失落。如果再遇到一个同样处境的人，两人可能只能勉强凑合，彼此心存距离，貌合神离。
+所以只有那些有可能成为我们终身伴侣的人，才值得我们付出时间和精力去追求。如果我们只是为了享受恋爱的快感而随意选择对象，那么最终很可能会落得一场空。
+我们一开始要建立一个观念，我们要为了结婚才谈恋爱，然后恋爱过程中循序渐进一步一步相互了解，不是说找对象就是为了享受或者图个乐，如果一开始就这样那是动机不纯。</p>
+<p>为了避免婚姻中的苦恼和困惑，我们需要在恋爱中保持一定的理智和清醒。造成苦恼的原因只有一个，就是没有用理智来指导感情，当情绪没有收到理性控制的时候你就会变得苦恼。
+并不是说我们要压抑自己的情感，而是要学会用理性来引导和控制情感。人生中的苦恼形形色色，人有七情六欲，但是当感情发出来的时候，要用你的理性去控制它、节制它，就不会有苦恼了。
+当我们感情要发作的时候，要理性的加以适当的掌握，掌握到合理的地步即可。</p>
+<p>除此之外在恋爱中我还有三点建议：</p>
+<ol>
+<li>恋爱中保持相当的理智，不要痴迷。要先选择好对象在恋爱，不要在恋爱中选择，用理性指导感性；</li>
+<li>结婚之前守贞。只要你不跟任何人发生性关系，你就跟这些人一点关系、一点责任都没有，一旦发生性关系就被套牢了；</li>
+<li>在恋爱中讨论婚事。当恋情发展到一定程度，恋爱中讨论结婚的事情是很正常的，好多人都不敢谈，整天看电影、谈理想，但是生活是很实际的东西早晚都需要面对；</li>
+</ol>
+<p>每个人都有权利选择自己的生活方式和价值观，无论是选择单身还是步入婚姻殿堂，都尊重个人的选择和意愿，但是建议恋爱要以结婚为目标。
+有达成的可能才会把她列入对象，如果没有可能，那就是浪费时间。
+要慎重选择恋爱的对象，不然就保持友谊。有时候朋友是一辈子的事情，夫妻之间反而不能一辈子，这就表示夫妻还不如朋友。
+夫妻之间说翻脸就翻脸，就是听了那些乱七八糟的言论，那些人可以不负责任，但是我们不能对自己不负责任。</p>
+<p>爱情和婚姻是人生中很重要的一部分，而且是很神圣的一部分，因为它会决定你之后的日子是充满了幸福快乐还是充满了烦恼忧愁，所以一定要慎始，不要自己跟自己过不去。</p>
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