Add auto playing state recovery option to play()

[addie9000]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
If play fails some reason, the playing state remains as true even though not playing.
This is exactly what the state diagram said. However if play occurs audio session error, the playing state goes back to false, because audio session error can handle synchronously.

Describe the solution you'd like
Add option something like bool auto_state_recovery to play method and if it's true, set playing state as false if play fails not only synchronous but also asynchronous.

Describe alternatives you've considered
Because we can handle this as long as play reports error properly, just leave this as is. If so, it's very nice if there is a bit clear document about playing state with error.

Additional context
Originally came up from #554