diff --git a/R/000-wrappers.R b/R/000-wrappers.R
index 9436c8f9..f4ccd0d5 100644
--- a/R/000-wrappers.R
+++ b/R/000-wrappers.R
@@ -660,6 +660,13 @@ class(`PlRDataType`) <- c("PlRDataType__bundle", "savvy_neopolars__sealed")
   }
 }
 
+`PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor` <- function(self) {
+  function(`other`) {
+    `other` <- .savvy_extract_ptr(`other`, "PlRExpr")
+    .savvy_wrap_PlRExpr(.Call(savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor__impl, `self`, `other`))
+  }
+}
+
 `PlRExpr_abs` <- function(self) {
   function() {
     .savvy_wrap_PlRExpr(.Call(savvy_PlRExpr_abs__impl, `self`))
@@ -2907,6 +2914,7 @@ class(`PlRDataType`) <- c("PlRDataType__bundle", "savvy_neopolars__sealed")
   e$`_meta_selector_add` <- `PlRExpr__meta_selector_add`(ptr)
   e$`_meta_selector_and` <- `PlRExpr__meta_selector_and`(ptr)
   e$`_meta_selector_sub` <- `PlRExpr__meta_selector_sub`(ptr)
+  e$`_meta_selector_xor` <- `PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor`(ptr)
   e$`abs` <- `PlRExpr_abs`(ptr)
   e$`add` <- `PlRExpr_add`(ptr)
   e$`agg_groups` <- `PlRExpr_agg_groups`(ptr)
diff --git a/R/expr-meta.R b/R/expr-meta.R
index 7c74f01a..ed4c0bf6 100644
--- a/R/expr-meta.R
+++ b/R/expr-meta.R
@@ -98,6 +98,11 @@ expr_meta__selector_sub <- function(other) {
     wrap()
 }
 
+expr_meta__selector_xor <- function(other) {
+  self$`_rexpr`$`_meta_selector_xor`(other$`_rexpr`) |>
+    wrap()
+}
+
 expr_meta__as_selector <- function() {
   self$`_rexpr`$`_meta_as_selector`() |>
     wrap()
diff --git a/R/selectors.R b/R/selectors.R
index 9bfaf8b7..74e4a2cf 100644
--- a/R/selectors.R
+++ b/R/selectors.R
@@ -120,6 +120,25 @@ selector__and <- function(other) {
   }
 }
 
+selector__xor <- function(other) {
+  if (is_column(other)) {
+    colname <- other$meta$output_name()
+    other <- cs$by_name(colname)
+  }
+  if (is_polars_selector(other)) {
+    wrap_to_selector(
+      self$meta$`_as_selector`()$meta$`_selector_xor`(other),
+      name = "xor",
+      parameters = list(
+        self = self,
+        other = other
+      )
+    )
+  } else {
+    self$as_expr()$xor(other)
+  }
+}
+
 selector__as_expr <- function() {
   self$`_rexpr` |>
     wrap()
diff --git a/src/init.c b/src/init.c
index 2fff8e59..edb61641 100644
--- a/src/init.c
+++ b/src/init.c
@@ -459,6 +459,11 @@ SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_sub__impl(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__other) {
     return handle_result(res);
 }
 
+SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor__impl(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__other) {
+    SEXP res = savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor__ffi(self__, c_arg__other);
+    return handle_result(res);
+}
+
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr_abs__impl(SEXP self__) {
     SEXP res = savvy_PlRExpr_abs__ffi(self__);
     return handle_result(res);
@@ -2636,6 +2641,7 @@ static const R_CallMethodDef CallEntries[] = {
     {"savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_add__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_add__impl, 2},
     {"savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_and__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_and__impl, 2},
     {"savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_sub__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_sub__impl, 2},
+    {"savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor__impl, 2},
     {"savvy_PlRExpr_abs__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr_abs__impl, 1},
     {"savvy_PlRExpr_add__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr_add__impl, 2},
     {"savvy_PlRExpr_agg_groups__impl", (DL_FUNC) &savvy_PlRExpr_agg_groups__impl, 1},
diff --git a/src/rust/api.h b/src/rust/api.h
index 72606378..bfe5178f 100644
--- a/src/rust/api.h
+++ b/src/rust/api.h
@@ -93,6 +93,7 @@ SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_as_selector__ffi(SEXP self__);
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_add__ffi(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__other);
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_and__ffi(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__other);
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_sub__ffi(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__other);
+SEXP savvy_PlRExpr__meta_selector_xor__ffi(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__other);
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr_abs__ffi(SEXP self__);
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr_add__ffi(SEXP self__, SEXP c_arg__rhs);
 SEXP savvy_PlRExpr_agg_groups__ffi(SEXP self__);
diff --git a/src/rust/src/expr/meta.rs b/src/rust/src/expr/meta.rs
index e8e4729b..8e4cd1f2 100644
--- a/src/rust/src/expr/meta.rs
+++ b/src/rust/src/expr/meta.rs
@@ -91,16 +91,15 @@ impl PlRExpr {
         Ok(out.into())
     }
 
-    // TODO: enable after polars update
-    // fn meta_selector_xor(&self, other: &PlRExpr) -> Result<Self> {
-    //     let out = self
-    //         .inner
-    //         .clone()
-    //         .meta()
-    //         ._selector_xor(other.inner.clone())
-    //         .map_err(RPolarsErr::from)?;
-    //     Ok(out.into())
-    // }
+    fn _meta_selector_xor(&self, other: &PlRExpr) -> Result<Self> {
+        let out = self
+            .inner
+            .clone()
+            .meta()
+            ._selector_xor(other.inner.clone())
+            .map_err(RPolarsErr::from)?;
+        Ok(out.into())
+    }
 
     fn _meta_as_selector(&self) -> Result<Self> {
         Ok(self.inner.clone().meta()._into_selector().into())
diff --git a/tests/testthat/test-selectors.R b/tests/testthat/test-selectors.R
index 98cad23a..668b0676 100644
--- a/tests/testthat/test-selectors.R
+++ b/tests/testthat/test-selectors.R
@@ -42,6 +42,14 @@ test_that("'minus' operator works", {
   )
 })
 
+test_that("'xor' operator works", {
+  df <- pl$DataFrame(foo = "a", bar = "b", foo3 = 3)
+  expect_named(
+    df$select(cs$string()$xor(cs$contains("foo"))),
+    c("bar", "foo3")
+  )
+})
+
 test_that("can use selectors in expressions", {
   df <- pl$DataFrame(
     dt = as.Date(c("1999-12-31", "2024-1-1", "2010-7-5")),