Add special checks for if_none_match("*")

[Xuanwo]

          Oh no worries. I think the API is good, perhaps the only improvement having the above in mind would be to only allow `.if_none_match("*")` and error out for any other argument.

Alternatively, perhaps the error message could state that if the intention is to use .if_none_match("*") then .if_not_exists(true) is an adequate replacement for S3.

Originally posted by @gruuya in #5504 (comment)

[Xuanwo]

We can internally convert if_none_match("*") to if_not_exists if the underlying services support if_not_exists. This can prevent many users from being confused about the behavior.

Or, perhaps we should raise a clear and helpful error instead of attempting to convert it, ensuring our behavior remains consistent rather than relying on too many workarounds.

[gruuya]

I thought about it a bit, one option would be to go with enabling if-none-match-* only for S3 like here #5506.

If you like that approach I can go ahead and extend the PR with some tests.